Tips On Handling Your Baby

Your baby’s first tantrum may take you by surprise but it is an event that will happen to every parent. The first time you face a screaming, foot stomping, and throwing their little bodies on the floor you may be shocked. It isn’t about what you have done wrong and it isn’t even temper. It is a temporary loss of emotional control by your baby. How you respond to this loss of control will determine the relationship you will have with that child, as they grow older.

You should learn to identify the triggers that brought on the tantrum. If you can identify the trigger for the tantrum, you may be able to recognize warning signs and even stop a tantrum before it starts. There are some common reasons a baby will throw a tantrum. Overtiredness is one reason for a baby tantrum. If you begin seeing signs of the child becoming tired you may want to put them to sleep or provide them with a quiet activity to help them rest. Make it a habit to have nap or rest time so your child will not get overtired.

Is your child hungry? That is another trigger for baby tantrums. You may want to give your child a snack or something to drink to help them stay calm. They react to hunger in a different way than adults and may not be able to express their need for food. Babies have small tummies and they need food more often than adults.

Let’s face facts; a big reason for tantrums is frustration. Your child may be frustrated because he or she is not getting what they want. You can help relieve frustration by removing the object they want or giving them a distraction. Remove the frustration and you maybe will stop a tantrum. Providing the child with toys that are suitable to their age will help ease stress and frustration for your child.

Another big reason for a tantrum may be fear or anxiety. You can help ease fear and anxiety by holding and cuddling your child. Comforting them and letting them feel safe by removing them from the fearful situation will help them stay calm. Children often get frustrated because they are unable to communicate what is wrong. They may not be able to tell you they are hungry, afraid, or frustrated. Help them express what their needs are, encourage them to point out what he or she wants. Can you imagine how frustrating it would be to not be able to communicate your needs?

The secret to avoiding tantrums is to use a soothing tone of voice, touching them gently, and keep yourself as calm as possible. Keep to a predictable schedule and be patient if your child has to be placed in an unfamiliar environment. Giving your child a warning before they need to change activities will give them time to adjust to the change of schedule. Keep your expectations practical for your child. Do not expect more from your child than they can logically do.

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